Thursday, November 15, 2007

Sex Before Marriage


In today’s society people have sex before marriage, but they shouldn’t because this can bring serious consequences in a relationship such as personal problems and pregnancy. The development of new ways to take care of and prevent pregnancy is more advanced. Most of the teenagers think that this isn’t a serious concept, but once they make a mistake they will regret for the rest of their lives. In some cultures and religions virginity plays an important role, because if teenagers doesn’t have sex this will help reinforce love and it will be more pure. If girls have sex and get pregnant in this case the girl will disrespect their family and her future won’t be guarantee.
If girls have sex and get pregnant they will suffer because the man could walk away without taking care of the baby. That’s were personal problems come your parents won’t support you. Teenagers of our present generations can’t wait to have sex because now there are more sources to prevent pregnancy by taking classes, reading, researching and experienced their own. Nowadays many youngsters have lost their virginity, because girls go to clubs, get drunk and that’s when man takes advantage of the situation by abusing or raping them. Some people say that sex before marriage is good to make sure that their partner is suitable for them or not. In most of the religions is most likely to have sex before marriage, because is a value that your parents teach you since you are little until you reach adolescence.
In my opinion there is nothing wrong in having sex as long as you know what you are doing and keep yourself informed. But think what the consequences are because if you get pregnant or a disease you will regret for the rest of your life just because you didn’t use or have the needed sources about sex. Most people think that is your body and you are free to do whatever you want with it. But in most of the families you go of what your parents thought you or as your beliefs from your religion.

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